Tessa's NPD Therapy Consult w/ Dr. Igor Weinberg
All the Tessa (dx'd w/ NPD) // Combo Pack
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43m
0:00 Wanting to Know Why She's Miserable Even Though Self-Aware
0:42 Feeling "Hollow" No Matter What She Does
2:18 Needing to Be Understood & Doubting Anyone Can
5:12 Fearing Being Understood / Not Being "Fascinating" Anymore
6:56 "Groundhog Day" of Disappointing, Empty, Boring Life
10:36 Wishing She'd Had a Different Childhood / Wasting Her Life
13:00 The Disconnect From Her "Ugly Past Self" / Fantasy
15:45 The Process of Creating a New Self From a "Worthless, Disgusting" Past Self
19:05 Dissociation / External Presentation vs. Internal Experience / "Her" Celebrity
27:44 Trapped in the Dilemma of Wanting to "Heal" and Also Remain Special
29:41 External Sources of Well-being & Worth / Pros and Cons of Affirmation & Recognition / It's "Never Enough"
35:52 Fragmentation of Self / Nothing "Sticks" / Something is Wrong Inside
40:15 Wrapping Up / Looking for an Answer (a Key) / A New Way to Be Special
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Debrief w/ Dr. Igor Weinberg After Hi...
0:00 Intro Thoughts / Tessa Looking for a Transformative Experience
1:02 Maintaining Sense of Self: Internally vs. Externally / "Fakeness"
3:32 The Dilemma of Getting Better
7:33 Tessa's Construction of a New Self / The Split Between Old and New Selves -
Debrief w/ Tessa After Her Consult w/...
0:00 Therapists as Guides / Feeling Listened to / Igor's Understanding
2:07 Letting Go of Wanting to Impress / Igor's Non-judgment
3:00 The Question of "Her" Celebrity Being Flawed
4:04 What She'll Take Away From The Session / Breaking Free
5:51 Reconnecting with Her Parents -
MBT Group Session Part 1: "Intro" w/ ...
0:00 Intro / Orientation to MBT
4:20 Participant Introductions
9:56 Definition of Mentalization
13:31 Tessa on Performance, Avoidance, and Showing Up
16:31 Reflections on Mentalizing | Jacob's Example
21:22 The Mentalizing Stance | Curiosity | Strengthening the Muscle
22:47 Tessa's Difficulty w/ ...
