Tiffany's BPD Therapy Consult w/ Dr. Karen Jacob
All the Tiffany (dx'd w/ BPD) // Combo Pack
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37m
0:00 Intro / Setup / How This Can Be Most Helpful
2:49 Background Story: Not Fitting In / Toxic Relationships / Not Having Friends / No Sense of Self / Other-Focus / Getting BPD Diagnosis
10:28 Being Seen as "High-functioning" vs Feeling Persistent Distress
15:48 Feeling Judged / Fighting for Self-Worth
20:08 People-pleasing and Not Having Friends / Loneliness
24:00 Feeling Something is "Inherently Wrong" With Me
26:46 "High-Functioning" Outside Doesn't Match Internal Feeling
30:15 Self-Judgment / Hiding Yourself Makes Real Love Impossible
32:52 Suicidality, Feeling of Badness, Wrapping Up
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Debrief w/ Dr. Karen Jacob After Her ...
0:00 What Dr. Jacob Listens for in a Session / Narratives
2:52 Tiffany's People-pleasing and then "Losing Herself"
4:05 Tiffany's Lack of Affect vs. Cognitive Understanding
6:51 Therapeutic Tactics to Connect to Feelings Under the Cognitions -
Debrief w/ Tiffany After Her Consult ...
0:00 Fear of Not Being Believed as Having BPD
4:21 Identifying as Having BPD / It's Not a Fashion Statement
8:02 Against "Armchair Psychiatry" / Having Her Diagnosis Questioned / Anger & Isolation -
MBT Group Session Part 1: "Intro" w/ ...
0:00 Intro / Orientation to MBT
4:20 Participant Introductions
9:56 Definition of Mentalization
13:31 Tessa on Performance, Avoidance, and Showing Up
16:31 Reflections on Mentalizing | Jacob's Example
21:22 The Mentalizing Stance | Curiosity | Strengthening the Muscle
22:47 Tessa's Difficulty w/ ...
