Tiffany Interview #1: Underneath "High-Functioning" BPD // Extended Split-Screen
All the Tiffany (dx'd w/ BPD) // Combo Pack
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54m
0:00 Intro / Why She Agreed to Do This
3:52 Isolation Hides BPD Symptoms / Not Having Friends
6:59 “Seven-year relationship” ≠ Wellness; Leapfrog to New Relationship
12:09 Always Having to Prove She Has BPD / The Cutting Incident / The Criteria
16:44 Not Getting Help / The Belt Attempt / People Don't Want to Believe Her
21:16 Suicidality / What Prevents Her From Doing It
26:26 What Triggers Suicidality / Invalidating Environments / Feeling Unliked
32:07 Losing Relationships / Toxic friendship patterns, passivity, and resentment
37:39 Choosing bad relationships to avoid being alone; Self-Respect
40:40 Being a Clinician / Pop Psychology / Medication / Depression / Ketamine Infusions / Work
50:25 Spectrum of Personality / Being a Better Clinician
52:49 Still Having Hope
Up Next in All the Tiffany (dx'd w/ BPD) // Combo Pack
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Tiffany's BPD Therapy Consult w/ Dr. ...
0:00 Tiffany's Family & Life Background / Invalidation
4:11 Therapy / Depression / Ketamine Infusions
6:19 How This Can Be Most Helpful / Challenging Auto-Thoughts
9:14 More Background Story: Not Fitting In / Toxic Relationships / Not Having Friends / No Sense of Self / Other-Focus / Getting BPD ... -
Debrief w/ Dr. Jacob After Her Consul...
0:00 Setup / Rebbie Intro / Friendship
3:36 What Dr. Jacob Listens for in a Session / Narratives
6:17 Tiffany's People-pleasing and then "Losing Herself"
7:30 Tiffany's Lack of Affect vs. Cognitive Understanding
10:31 Therapeutic Tactics to Connect to Feelings Under the Cognitions
13:43 Knowing Y... -
Debrief w/ Tiffany After Her Consult ...
0:00 Fear of Not Being Believed as Having BPD / Not "Acting Like" She Has a Personality Disorder
14:04 Identifying as Having BPD / It's Not a Fashion Statement
20:25 Having Her Diagnosis Questioned / Against "Armchair Psychiatry" / Anger & Isolation
25:25 What She's Learned Here So Far / Differen...
