Jacob Interview #1: His Narcissistic Pathology // Extended Split-Screen
All the Jacob (dx'd w/ NPD) // Combo Pack
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1h 0m
0:00 Intro / "I'll Always Be a Narcissist" / Remission vs Recovery / Craving Chaos & Novelty to Fight Emptiness and Boredom
7:10 The "Creating a Scandal" Story / Revenge, Rationalization & Shame
15:54 A PTSD Moment / Blowing Up Friendship Bridges
20:13 The Development of NPD in Childhood / Need for Independence
23:54 His "Rebirth / Creating a New Persona to Battle the Self-Hate
27:00 Rough Spot / Social Group Breakdown / Another "Rebirth"
29:09 Therapy / Relationships / Fantasy of Ideal Love
32:18 Becoming More Self-Aware / Lying in Therapy / Shame
34:02 Parents / "They Had No Business Having Kids" / Sister's Troubles
39:50 Parents' Neglect / Current Situation / Strangling Incident
44:54 Do You Want to Have Kids?
47:24 Authenticity vs Performing / Fakeness / Specialness / Getting Reactions Out of People / Manipulation
55:00 Craving Real Connection But Not Having Faith He'll Be Loved
57:00 Getting "Too Close" for Comfort / Outro
Up Next in All the Jacob (dx'd w/ NPD) // Combo Pack
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Jacob's NPD Therapy Consult w/ Dr. Ig...
0:00 Intro / Jacob's Social Media Campaign / Motivations / Confusion about His Actions / Destructive Behavior / Beast or Monster
9:29 Pathology as Identity / Pros & Cons of NPD
11:54 Pride in Being Callous / Disgust w/ Dependency / Self-Reliance
16:06 Exploiting People / Loss of Control / Conques... -
Debrief w/ Dr. Weinberg After His Con...
0:00 Into / Staying Curious About Jacob's Pathology / Sensitive to Context
3:44 Enjoying the Conversation / Why It Was Productive & Hopeful
5:23 Promoting Effective Treatments for Narcissism / Being Too Empathic
8:31 Introducing Curiosity Instead of Certainty -
Debrief w/ Jacob After His Consult w/...
0:00 Intro / Balancing Motivations / Impression-Management
2:05 Needing to Lead the Clinician to Conclusions
5:38 The Fencing Match of Therapy / Laughing Off Emotions
9:25 Aloneness / Feeling Understood / Tessa / Friendships
16:08 The Main Takeaway: Some Clinicians Are Competent
