Jacob's NPD Therapy Consult w/ Dr. Ruth Lewis // Extended Split-Screen
All the Interviews + Sessions // Combo Pack
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53m
0:00 Jacob's Current Therapist Situation / Rational vs. Irrational / Don't Assume the Worst About Yourself / The Emotions Behind Anger & Irritation / Being Dismissed & Treated Unfairly Because He's "Crazy"
12:06 Family Background / Life History
16:32 Not Wanting Pity / Resilience
19:16 Inability to Open Up / Shame / Emotional Detachment
22:44 The Power of Therapy -- Developing Emotional Muscle / Insight
27:20 Therapy Is a Second Chance at a Safe, Reliable Place
31:18 Utter Self-Reliance / Arms-Length Relationships
37:03 Discomfort in Therapy / Sadness
43:08 Love Relationships / Infidelity / Male Vulnerability
47:22 Jacob's Current Therapy / Substance Use
50:31 Outro / Everyone Deserves Security and Help
Up Next in All the Interviews + Sessions // Combo Pack
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Debrief w/ Tessa After Her Consult w/...
0:00 Intro / "It Was Everything I didn't Expect" / Expectations of Control / EMDR
6:12 Feeling "Looked Down On" / Getting Defensive
10:24 Getting Triggered & Showing Emotions / Jacob Comparisons
21:54 What She Got Out of the Session w/ Karen / Outro -
Debrief w/ Dr. Weinberg After His Con...
0:00 Into / Staying Curious About Jacob's Pathology / Sensitive to Context
3:44 Enjoying the Conversation / Why It Was Productive & Hopeful
5:23 Promoting Effective Treatments for Narcissism / Being Too Empathic
8:31 Introducing Curiosity Instead of Certainty -
Debrief w/ Jacob After His Consult w/...
0:00 Intro / Balancing Motivations / Impression-Management
2:05 Needing to Lead the Clinician to Conclusions
5:38 The Fencing Match of Therapy / Laughing Off Emotions
9:25 Aloneness / Feeling Understood / Tessa / Friendships
16:08 The Main Takeaway: Some Clinicians Are Competent
