Jacob's NPD Therapy Consult w/ Dr. Ruth Lewis
All the Jacob (dx'd w/ NPD) // Combo Pack
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36m
0:00 Intro / Current Therapist Situation
1:47 Family Background / Life History
5:54 Not Wanting Pity / Resilience
8:16 Inability to Open Up / Shame / Emotional Detachment
11:16 The Power of Therapy -- Developing Emotional Muscle / Insight
15:12 Therapy Is a Second Chance at a Safe, Reliable Place
18:38 Utter Self-Reliance / Arms-Length Relationships
23:42 Discomfort in Therapy / Sadness
26:52 Love Relationships / Infidelity / Male Vulnerability
31:16 Jacob's Current Therapy / Substance Use
34:10 Outro / Everyone Deserves Security and Help
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