Jacob's NPD Therapy Consult w/ Dr. Ruth Lewis // Extended Split-Screen
All the Jacob (dx'd w/ NPD) // Combo Pack
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53m
0:00 Jacob's Current Therapist Situation / Rational vs. Irrational / Don't Assume the Worst About Yourself / The Emotions Behind Anger & Irritation / Being Dismissed & Treated Unfairly Because He's "Crazy"
12:06 Family Background / Life History
16:32 Not Wanting Pity / Resilience
19:16 Inability to Open Up / Shame / Emotional Detachment
22:44 The Power of Therapy -- Developing Emotional Muscle / Insight
27:20 Therapy Is a Second Chance at a Safe, Reliable Place
31:18 Utter Self-Reliance / Arms-Length Relationships
37:03 Discomfort in Therapy / Sadness
43:08 Love Relationships / Infidelity / Male Vulnerability
47:22 Jacob's Current Therapy / Substance Use
50:31 Outro / Everyone Deserves Security and Help
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Debrief w/ Dr. Lewis After Her Consul...
0:00 Initial Reactions: Jacob's Discomfort, Sadness, Loneliness, Insecurity
4:27 NPD or Borderline Traits -- Means "Something Happened" Early On
7:09 How Therapy Can Provide an Alternative to the Old Narrative
13:48 Impression Mode / What's Fueling It
17:07 Recommending Team-Based Support for Jac... -
Debrief w/ Jacob After His Consult w/...
0:00 Caught Off Guard by Dr. Lewis's Empathic Approach
1:02 External Features vs. Character Affirmations
5:14 Justifying / Rationalizing "Bad" Behavior
9:39 Losing His Old Friends / Social Group / Having No Equals
15:52 Hierarchy is the "Only Way" Things Make Sense / Objective Worth
20:48 Jacob's... -
MBT Group Session Part 1: "Intro" w/ ...
0:00 Intro / Orientation to MBT
5:00 Participant Introductions
10:45 Definition of Mentalization
14:22 Tessa on Performance, Avoidance, and Showing Up
17:22 Reflections on Mentalizing | Jacob's Example
22:20 The Mentalizing Stance | Curiosity | Strengthening the Muscle
23:45 Tessa's Difficulty w/...
