00:00 Intro / Karen's book / Kids' Feelings
02:00 Karen's background / Perception / Working with Kids / Naming Feelings / Physiology / Evidence-Based Treatments / Therapeutic Alliance
16:40 Identifying & Regulating Emotions / High Emotion States / Emo Vulnerability
22:20 Kids with Hypersensitivity / Developing BPD / Bio Vulnerabilities
26:00 Ice Dive Intervention / Parasympathetic Nervous System / Self-awareness / DBT / Becoming More Regulated
32:08 Mindfulness / Judgment / Candy Bar Exercise / Internal Experience / Beginner's Mind
39:12 Getting a Multidimensional View of Your Child
43:13 Intense Emotions in Children / Learning to Tolerate Internal Experience / DBT / Riding the Wave / Ferberizing / Teaching Your Child How to Self-Soothe
49:10 When Kids Come From a Difficult Home / Generalization / Support & Reinforcement / When Parents Don't Align / Real Life Evidence / Motivation & Reinforcement / Celebration
59:34 Treating Personality Disorders / What Gets People Better? / The Importance of Willingness to Treatment
1:09:02 Is There Less BPD Now? / The Continuum of Personality Disorders / Overlapping ASPD, Malignant Narcissism, Narcissism, BPD / Social Media Influence / Missed Diagnosis
1:17:37 Diagnosing NPD / Self-worth / External Factors / Standards / NPD Causes / Severity & Impairment
1:26:12 Self-Assessment and Getting Help / MBT & TFP / Why Treatment Is Hard to Access / What to Do When You Can't Get Treatment
1:35:57 NPD vs BPD / How Do They Feel Different to the Therapist? / Not Feeling Loveable
1:46:42 Bringing Your True Self To The Therapy (as a Therapist) / Do You Need to Like or Love Who You're Treating?
1:52:30 Understanding Your Emotions / Slowing Down / Strengthening the MBT Muscle
1:57:03 The Importance of Language / Trauma / PTSD / Trigger Warnings / Acclimating to the Treatment Environment / Focusing on Yourself
2:02:30 Handling Antisocial PD in the Community Treatment Setting
2:04:40 Breaking the Reinforcement Pattern of Self-Harming or Suicidal Behavior
2:07:25 Outro / PD dx Is Not a Death Sentence