Tiffany Interview #1: What's Underneath "High-Functioning" BPD
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27m
0:00 Isolation Hides BPD Symptoms / Not Having Friends
2:35 “Seven-year relationship” ≠ Wellness; Leapfrog to New Relationship
4:02 Always Having to Prove She Has BPD / The Cutting Incident / The Criteria
7:30 Not Getting Help / The Belt Attempt / People Don't Want to Believe Her
10:04 Suicidality / What Prevents Her From Doing It
13:56 What Triggers Suicidality / Invalidating Environments / Feeling Unliked
17:20 Losing Relationships / Toxic friendship patterns, passivity, and resentment
22:50 Choosing bad relationships to avoid being alone; Self-Respect
25:41 Still Having Hope
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Jacob Interview #1: The Development o...
0:00 The Development of NPD in Childhood / Need for Independence
3:00 His "Rebirth / Creating a New Persona to Battle the Self-Hate
5:40 Rough Spot / Social Group Breakdown / Another "Rebirth"
7:37 Therapy / Relationships / Fantasy of Ideal Love
10:35 Becoming More Self-Aware / Lying in Therapy /... -
Tiffany Interview #2: "Why Don't Peop...
0:00 Intro / Not Feeling Believed
1:45 Tolerating If You're Not Believed or Understood
4:56 "Why Does It Matter If People Believe You?"
5:56 She Can't Be Understood; Being Believed Is the Next Best Thing
10:53 "Believe Yourself, not the Non-Believers"
13:54 Having the Right to Suffer / Byes -
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-Tessa's departure & his feelings about her