Tiffany Interview #1: Underneath "High-Functioning" BPD // Extended Split-Screen
All the Interviews // Combo Pack
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54m
0:00 Intro / Why She Agreed to Do This
3:52 Isolation Hides BPD Symptoms / Not Having Friends
6:59 “Seven-year relationship” ≠ Wellness; Leapfrog to New Relationship
12:09 Always Having to Prove She Has BPD / The Cutting Incident / The Criteria
16:44 Not Getting Help / The Belt Attempt / People Don't Want to Believe Her
21:16 Suicidality / What Prevents Her From Doing It
26:26 What Triggers Suicidality / Invalidating Environments / Feeling Unliked
32:07 Losing Relationships / Toxic friendship patterns, passivity, and resentment
37:39 Choosing bad relationships to avoid being alone; Self-Respect
40:40 Being a Clinician / Pop Psychology / Medication / Depression / Ketamine Infusions / Work
50:25 Spectrum of Personality / Being a Better Clinician
52:49 Still Having Hope
Up Next in All the Interviews // Combo Pack
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Jacob Interview #1: His Narcissistic ...
0:00 Intro / "I'll Always Be a Narcissist" / Remission vs Recovery / Craving Chaos & Novelty to Fight Emptiness and Boredom
7:10 The "Creating a Scandal" Story / Revenge, Rationalization & Shame
15:54 A PTSD Moment / Blowing Up Friendship Bridges
20:13 The Development of NPD in Childhood / Need f... -
Tiffany Interview #2: "Why Don't Peop...
0:00 Intro / Not Feeling Believed
1:47 Tolerating If You're Not Believed or Understood
4:58 "Why Does It Matter If People Believe You?"
6:00 She Can't Be Understood; Being Believed Is the Next Best Thing
11:04 "Believe Yourself, not the Non-Believers"
14:09 Having the Right to Suffer
15:08 Not Ex... -
Jacob Interview #2: Good-bye Chat // ...
0:00 Being the "Charity Case" of His Friends' Parents / Not Taking Advantage
2:23 Going Back to School / Not Having the Motivation
4:18 Tessa Leaving / Friendship / True Connection / Leaving Ohio / Financials / The Future
10:45 It's Been an "Incredible Experience" / Positive Comments About the PD...