Tessa's NPD Therapy Consult w/ Dr. Igor Weinberg // Extended Split-Screen
NPD Therapy Consult: Tessa & Dr. Igor Weinberg
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1h 5m
0:00 Wanting to Know Why She's Miserable Even Though Self-Aware
0:39 Feeling "Hollow" No Matter What She Does / Trying EMDR, CBT
3:53 Needing to Be Understood & Doubting Anyone Can
7:18 Fearing Being Understood / Not Being "Fascinating" Anymore
9:18 "Groundhog Day" of Disappointing, Empty, Boring Life
13:05 Wishing She'd Had a Different Childhood / Wasting Her Life
15:23 The Disconnect From Her "Ugly Past Self" / Fantasy
18:13 The Process of Creating a New Self From a "Worthless, Disgusting" Past Self
21:43 Dissociation / External Presentation vs. Internal Experience / "Her" Celebrity
31:48 Trapped in the Dilemma of Wanting to "Heal" and Also Remain Special / Needing Evidence to Make a Choice
38:27 External Sources of Well-being & Worth / Pros and Cons of Affirmation & Recognition / It's "Never Enough"
46:14 Fragmentation of Self / Nothing "Sticks" / Something is Wrong Inside
51:10 EMDR / Substance Use / Humiliation / Progress Roadblock of Needing to Be Special / Uncertainty / Evidence
56:59 Wrapping Up / Hope / Looking for an Answer (a Key) / A New Way to Be Special
Up Next in NPD Therapy Consult: Tessa & Dr. Igor Weinberg
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Debrief w/ Dr. Weinberg After His Con...
0:00 Intro Thoughts / Tessa Looking for a Transformative Experience
1:13 Maintaining Sense of Self: Internally vs. Externally / "Fakeness"
4:05 The Dilemma of Getting Better
8:14 Tessa's Construction of a New Self / The Split Between Old and New Selves
12:12 Developing a Better Relationship w/ Pa... -
Debrief w/ Tessa After Her Consult w/...
0:00 Therapists as Guides / Feeling Listened to / Igor's Understanding
2:45 Letting Go of Wanting to Impress / Igor's Non-judgment
3:42 The Question of "Her" Celebrity Being Flawed / Emulating the Celebrity & Getting Rid of the Past Self vs. Integrating It / Imposter in Her Own Body
13:00 What Sh... -
Post-Consult Chat: Tessa & Dr. Weinberg
-Tessa has nice things to say about Igor's style of therapeutic conversation.
-Feeling comfortable opening up.
-Etc.
