Tessa's NPD Therapy Consult w/ Dr. Karen Jacob // Split-Screen
All the Karen Jacob (Clinician) // Combo Pack
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51m
0:00 Intro / Healing from Trauma
2:59 Shutting Down / Struggling to Label Feelings / Avoiding her Diagnosis
6:32 Trauma with Women / Competition / Fear of Judgment
15:16 Struggling to Want Connection / Fear of Being a Fraud / Using People for Selfies
17:48 Safety Strategies / Waiting Until People Adore Her First or Shutting Them out
23:53 Her "Worthless" Past Self / Reliving What She Never Got / Trauma of Being Unnoticed
27:31 Ordinary & Together vs Extraordinary & Alone
30:25 Boredom / Loneliness / Breakdown of Self / Going to Therapy
32:55 Disappointment in People / People Are Going to Fail You
36:49 Struggling for Human Connection / Needing Evidence to Change
41:02 Dysregulated Self-Esteem / Tessa's Self-Defense
46:40 Wrapping Up / Having a Female Therapist / Trust Issues
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Debrief w/ Tessa After Her Consult w/...
0:00 Intro / "It Was Everything I didn't Expect" / Expectations of Control / EMDR
6:12 Feeling "Looked Down On" / Getting Defensive
10:24 Getting Triggered & Showing Emotions / Jacob Comparisons
21:54 What She Got Out of the Session w/ Karen / Outro -
Tiffany's BPD Therapy Consult w/ Dr. ...
0:00 Tiffany's Family & Life Background / Invalidation
4:11 Therapy / Depression / Ketamine Infusions
6:19 How This Can Be Most Helpful / Challenging Auto-Thoughts
9:14 More Background Story: Not Fitting In / Toxic Relationships / Not Having Friends / No Sense of Self / Other-Focus / Getting BPD ... -
Debrief w/ Dr. Jacob After Her Consul...
0:00 Setup / Rebbie Intro / Friendship
3:36 What Dr. Jacob Listens for in a Session / Narratives
6:17 Tiffany's People-pleasing and then "Losing Herself"
7:30 Tiffany's Lack of Affect vs. Cognitive Understanding
10:31 Therapeutic Tactics to Connect to Feelings Under the Cognitions
13:43 Knowing Y...